To BI or not to BI?

To BI or not to BI?

I first started blogging on the now-defunct MAXIM Magazine Philippines. In my blogs, I have always incorporated bisexualism. Since then, many have emailed and PM me asking a lot of questions about bisexualism . And now with my new Mocha Girls Jhane & Mae, I was so surprised to find out that they are BICURIOUS. So what is BI CURIOUS? What is BISEXUAL? And what is a LESBIAN?

What is a Lesbian? When you are a lesbian, you like women. You’re sexually attracted to women. You want to have sex with women. You want to build a life with a woman, have relationships with women ONLY.

WHAT IS BISEXUAL? When you are Bisexual, you like both men and women. You are sexually attracted to both men and women. You want to have sex with women and men. You want to have relationships with either. YOU MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE HAD SEX WITH SAME SEX to be called BISEXUAL. The fact that in your heart you like and desire both men and women makes you a Bisexual.

WHAT IS BICURIOUS? There are many definitions of “BICURIOUS” but there is one common description. You are BICURIOUS when you are not sure of your sexuality. You find yourself attracted to both men and women. BICURIOUS people have or haven’t acted on their sexual desire. They are confused and still afraid to admit that they are Bisexual. If Mae and Jhane are bicurious, does it mean they’re bisexual? I don’t want to spill the beans early. Get a copy of FHM July issue and find out for yourself.






I am proud to say that I am BISEXUAL. I am attracted to both men and women. I had BF & GF in the past. I’ve had sex with both Men and Women. I have celebrity crushes and I fantasize about them- Rhian Ramos, Dingdong Dantes, Saida of EB BABES and many more. Many girls have approached me telling me that they’re confused about their sexuality. They have boyfriends but they find themselves fantasizing about women. I’m also surprised to receive emails from girls as young as 16 telling me about their experiences with the same sex. They wanted to know if they’re bisexual. There is one thing that I would like to share with them – IF YOU LIKE GIRLS & GUYS, whether you have or haven’t had sex with them, YOU ARE BISEXUAL. If you like, love or desire girls but still prefer to have relationships with guys – YOU ARE BISEXUAL. Be proud and don’t be afraid of what other people think.

Your sexual orientation does not determine who you are or what you do. My advocacy is to change people’s perspective on bisexualism. As I have said before, I wish all women were bisexual. If all women would learn to appreciate, love and embrace other women- the world would be a much better place. No more catfights, no insecurity.

REBIRTH OF THE MOCHA GIRLS

REBIRTH OF THE MOCHA GIRLS

Ever since the ex- Mocha girls and I parted ways, there have been rumors circulating on the Internet that the MOCHA GIRLS has disbanded. It was spreading like wild fire! Because of this, I lost numerous corporate shows – money that I could’ve used for my mom’s chemotherapy. First of all, there’s NO TRUTH to the rumor that the MOCHA GIRLS has disbanded or dissolved. The old members were REPLACED. Therefore, MOCHA GIRLS are still intact and functioning.

The new MOCHA GIRLS are Jhane Santiaguel and Mae dela Cerna. Jhane is from our sister band Caramel. She’s a good singer and dancer. We were surprised to discover that she’s also a good guitarist. Her major musical influence is Avril Lavigne. She says she’s a little “complicated” when it comes to love and relationships. She’s only 20 years old but thinks and acts like a mature woman. She’s an extremely confident and straightforward person and I love her for that. I know she’ll go a long way with her exquisite talent and feisty attitude.



Mae dela Cerna is no stranger to the public eye. She was a former member of EB Babes. I was so excited about her addition to the group because she’s famous and she has a fan base. I was completely humbled. I was also greatly surprised how super nice she is as a person and a friend. Aside from being a good dancer, she also has a knack for acting. Btw, did I mention that she can sing too?

I am so happy with the overwhelming positive feedback from clients, bar owners and supporters. They said they like the new members more and they think they’re hotter. I think they’re really hot too. I like mestizas. A lot of people are asking me naughty questions about them like, “have you ever kissed them or made out with them?”. If you really want to know , then check them out on FHM July issue. Mae is also FHM’s Babe Online for the month of June. Visit fhm.com.ph and watch Mae as she reveals her sexy side.



I have moved on but apparently some people haven’t. A lot of people keep asking me how I feel about them and their supporters back-stabbing and bad-mouthing me. Of course I’m hurt. They were like my family, the former Mocha Girls- Bez, Grace and Hershey. (Heart was still under probation when she was asked by my manager to leave the group. Therefore, she was NEVER a Mocha Girl.) Right now, I’m dealing with lies, rumors and people attacking me. I did my best in talking with Hershey to stop the slandering from their camp. Unfortunately, I was denied. But it’s ok cuz I have forgiven them in my heart. I only have two choices- give up or move on. I choose to move on. This will be the last time that I’m going to talk about the former Mocha Girls and the break-up.

So what’s the next step for the new Mocha Girls? I want to train Jhane and Mae to be the best performers that they can be. They’ve got so much talent and I know they’ll go a long way. I want them to learn to stand and perform on their own in the near future. Groups don’t last forever. But as long as I’m here, I’m going to teach them everything I know. I’m so proud to say that they’re bi-curious and open-minded. I’m willing to teach them everything they want to know about love, relationship and sex. I know it’s been a long while since I last posted here on my blog. I will be updating my blog once a week. I’m excited to write again because I’m taking Mae and Jhane with me to my journey to sexual discovery and experimentation.